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Harriette Cole: I’m appalled that my dad billed my mother for portray the rooms

Editorial Board Published May 20, 2025
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DEAR HARRIETTE: My dad and mom have lengthy been divorced, however over time they turned pals.

All of their youngsters are adults, which made it simpler for them to get alongside — they’ve much less to bicker about now.

My dad requested my mother for a favor a number of months in the past when he fell on exhausting occasions: He requested if he might keep together with her till he discovered a extra reasonably priced housing choice for himself.

She didn’t like being his first choice, so she requested if he’d have the ability to supply a small charge for the time he’d be together with her. He wasn’t ready to supply a set quantity, however he agreed to contribute to a invoice, groceries and housekeeping each time he might.

Two months glided by, and he didn’t do any of these issues.

Then he heard that my mother wanted to repaint her lounge and kitchen, and he supplied to do it for her. My mother agreed, considering he was lastly making good on his supply to contribute.

As soon as he started portray, he gave my mom an bill for his companies. I’m offended!

She paid him and mentioned she doesn’t need to be petty by placing him out. I don’t need to meddle, however I feel I ought to say one thing to my dad.

— Unpaid Dues

DEAR UNPAID DUES: Your mom mustn’t have paid him. As an alternative, she ought to have given him an itemized invoice for what she thinks can be truthful compensation for his contribution to the family whereas he was there, from which she may deduct his portray charge.

Sure, it’s best to say one thing to your father, particularly that he took benefit of your mom’s kindness. He ought to apologize and repay her when he has the funds.

DEAR HARRIETTE: My mother has at all times been emotionally distant, and now that I’m an grownup, I’m realizing simply how a lot that’s formed our relationship.

After we have been rising up, she wasn’t unkind. She made positive we have been fed, clothed and cared for. However she not often confirmed affection or talked about emotions.

If I ever introduced up one thing emotional or tough, she would shut down or change the topic. I discovered shortly that vulnerability made her uncomfortable, so I finished attempting.

Now, as an grownup, I need a deeper relationship together with her. I attempt to ask her about her life, her previous and her feelings, however she both laughs it off or deflects my questions. It seems like there’s a wall between us that I can’t climb over, and I’m left feeling rejected.

My sisters and I’ve talked about this, and so they really feel it, too, however we don’t know how one can strategy her with out pushing her away much more.

How can I’ve a relationship with somebody who avoids closeness?

— Shut the Divide

DEAR CLOSE THE DIVIDE: You will have to just accept the connection that you simply do have together with your mom. If she has at all times been guarded, you aren’t seemingly to have the ability to do something to get her to vary.

You may ask her, after all, and inform her how a lot you lengthy for emotional intimacy together with her. Don’t rely on getting it. As an alternative, construct shut relationships together with your siblings and your mates.

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