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Pricey Abby: My spouse’s mother thinks she’s transferring to our dream home with us

Editorial Board Published February 9, 2025
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DEAR ABBY: My spouse and I’ve been fortunately married for 15 years. My mother-in-law, “Pat,” a widow since 1997, has lived with us for the final 14 years.

She lived alone in her personal condominium when my spouse and I first had been married however was going by bouts of melancholy. I initially prolonged the supply to her to dwell with us till she bought by her melancholy, and I discussed it might be for under a yr or two.

Properly, 14 years later, I’m getting ready for retirement, and Pat thinks she’s coming with my spouse and me to our retirement dream dwelling.

How can I politely handle this? I now not wish to dwell with my MIL. I’ve been beneficiant to have allowed her to stick with us this lengthy.

Any arguments my spouse and I’ve had for probably the most half have been due to Pat’s interference. We each agree on this truth. My spouse and I get alongside effectively and compromise on nearly all the things.

Pat is wholesome and younger sufficient to nonetheless be unbiased. She’s additionally cell sufficient to run her day by day errands.

Please assist me to precise that it’s overdue for her to maneuver on and permit my spouse and me the house to retire collectively peacefully.

— MAKING A CHANGE IN THE EAST

DEAR MAKING A CHANGE: You acknowledged that your mother-in-law expects to dwell with you and her daughter in your new place, which signifies that the topic has been mentioned to some extent.

One other “family conference” is now so as, the earlier the higher.

You and your spouse should clarify that as a result of you may be transferring, it’s time for Pat to discover a place of her personal. Anticipate that there will likely be some resistance, so supply to assist her discover a place and help with the transfer.

After 14 years, it’s time. Higher late than by no means.

DEAR ABBY: My grown daughter is a bum magnet.

All of her relationships have the identical end result: The bum stays along with her till he will get a greater scenario. The present one has been the longest, occurring for a number of years.

It was troublesome to get her to confess that he’s abusive. She confided she’s afraid at instances. His interest of drawing footage depicting excessive violence worries me that he might act out sometime.

Any recommendations about what I can do to assist her?

— CONCERNED MOM IN CALIFORNIA

DEAR MOM: Mentally wholesome adults don’t spend their spare time fantasizing about excessive violence. Additionally they don’t abuse their important others.

Please remind your daughter that continued involvement with somebody who abuses her and makes her fearful is risking her security or her life.

If she’s dwelling with him, she wants to maneuver. If he’s dwelling along with her, she ought to name the toll-free variety of the Nationwide Home Violence Hotline, 1-800-799-7233 or go to thehotline.org and ask for assist in forming a secure escape plan.

Pricey Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also called Jeanne Phillips, and was based by her mom, Pauline Phillips. Contact Pricey Abby at www.DearAbby.com or P.O. Field 69440, Los Angeles, CA 90069.

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