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Pricey Abby: My spouse’s large downside is hidden within the closet

Editorial Board Published April 3, 2025
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Pricey Abby: My spouse’s large downside is hidden within the closet
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DEAR ABBY: My spouse is a superb and loving individual. She has just one fault, nevertheless it drives me loopy:

Our home is nicely maintained, however she is a closet slob.

Each closet, each cupboard, each drawer and each space for storing is full of junk. Her walk-in closet is piled waist-high with stuff. You possibly can’t stroll in there. You can also’t open a single drawer in the home due to the stuff crammed inside.

These aren’t treasured belongings. It’s merely junk that hasn’t been utilized in 15 years.

I can’t let you know the variety of occasions I’ve needed to transfer containers round to get to one thing I want or to repair one thing.

I’ve tried speaking to her about it, writing her a letter about my emotions and simply getting mad. Nothing works.

My anger has constructed to the purpose the place I can’t take it any longer. Each time I stumble throughout the mess, I get indignant. It’s not rational, and I’m even dropping sleep over it.

My spouse treasures her possessions greater than she treasures me or our relationship. What can I do?

— BLOCKED IN MONTANA

DEAR BLOCKED: Since you’re dropping sleep over this and are able to throw within the towel, tackle your issues to your spouse in these phrases. Inform her that since you aren’t speaking nicely on this topic, you need the 2 of you to seek the advice of a licensed marriage and household therapist.

Individuals who have the tendency to hoard the best way your spouse does generally undergo from nervousness, despair or another emotional downside. There may be assist for it, thank heavens. However it’s important to ask for it, and your spouse must be prepared.

DEAR ABBY: I’ve been married to “Chuck” for 40 years. We’ve had a reasonably first rate life collectively, regardless that Chuck drank closely for 35 of these years.

Now, as we enter our twilight years, he has skilled varied medical issues, which have prompted him to cease ingesting altogether. Though it is a good factor, I nonetheless wish to have a drink occasionally.

Once I imbibe (not more than two or three), Chuck turns into irritable and begins fights. There isn’t a violence, however he snaps, swears after which provides me the silent remedy.

Please advise me about how one can deal with this. I’ve been attempting to “sneak” my drinks behind his again, however why ought to I?

By the best way, I’ve contributed greater than my justifiable share financially and have taken on all home duty on this relationship, just about since Day One. Am I caught with Chuck?

— LIGHT DRINKER IN NORTH CAROLINA

DEAR LIGHT DRINKER: Have you ever not learn something the previous surgeon basic posted on the web about alcohol consumption? Multiple drink a day for ladies might enhance the chance of most cancers of the breast, esophagus, abdomen, pancreas and colon. Chances are you’ll need to think about curbing  your alcohol consumption.

The truth that seeing you imbibe has such a unfavourable impact in your husband could also be a sign that his sobriety is shaky.

In the event you actually really feel the necessity to have an alcoholic beverage (or two or three), think about doing it away from the home with ladies buddies.

Pricey Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, often known as Jeanne Phillips, and was based by her mom, Pauline Phillips. Contact Pricey Abby at www.DearAbby.com or P.O. Field 69440, Los Angeles, CA 90069.

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