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Harriette Cole: I hate working. Ought to I practice for a marathon?

Editorial Board Published April 10, 2025
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DEAR HARRIETTE: All of my pals are into working, and currently they’ve been speaking about coaching for a marathon collectively.

They maintain encouraging me to affix them, saying it will be an incredible problem, an awesome bonding expertise and one thing I’d really feel pleased with carrying out.

The issue is that I hate working. I’ve by no means loved it, and I’ve zero ardour for it. The thought of coaching for months and working 26.2 miles sounds depressing, not thrilling.

On the similar time, I really feel like I’m lacking out by not collaborating. I don’t wish to be the odd one out whereas they’re all supporting one another and celebrating this large milestone collectively. I fear that if I don’t a minimum of attempt, I’ll really feel disregarded or remorse not being part of one thing so vital to them.

Nonetheless,I don’t wish to pressure myself into doing one thing I hate only for the sake of becoming in.

Ought to I push myself to attempt it anyway and see if I study to find it irresistible? Or is it OK to say no and discover different methods to attach with my pals with out working a marathon?

— Peer Strain

DEAR PEER PRESSURE: It’s comprehensible that you simply fear about dropping momentum and intimacy with your folks if you’re the one one selecting to not take part in working. That’s OK. Relationship dynamics change over time, and it’s OK for you to not take part in one thing that doesn’t curiosity you.

There may be another. Along with your restricted curiosity within the sport however actual curiosity in your folks, contemplate providing to doc their course of.

Would you be keen to go to follow runs as soon as a month — or with another frequency — and take footage of them on their run? Interview them periodically about their experiences? Provide different logistical assist as they practice? Be there on the day of the marathon to cheer them on and file their success?

This might be a beautiful solution to keep related to them with out having to do the factor you dislike.

DEAR HARRIETTE: A number of months in the past, my son was brutally attacked and robbed outdoors of a nightclub. He ended up having three surgical procedures and remains to be in bodily remedy.

Fortunately, he’s lastly in a position to stroll once more, however having to maintain him and see him that manner broke my coronary heart.

His fortieth birthday is arising, and he plans to have a celebration. I simply can’t wrap my head round this.

After a near-death expertise, why would you wish to go proper again to partying? Isn’t that how we bought right here within the first place?

— Fearful Mother

DEAR FEARFUL MOM: As a mom and the one who nursed him again to the place he’s immediately, it is sensible that you’d be anxious about his subsequent steps.

What you don’t need is on your son to stay fearful and to again away from life. Having a celebration to have fun his life generally is a great expertise for him and all in attendance. Don’t discourage him.

On the similar time, you possibly can encourage him to make protected selections for his life. No matter his function was in getting harm — like presumably not being sober — he ought to look at so he doesn’t repeat these errors. He could wish to take self-defense courses as effectively.

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