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Asking Eric: The mom was flustered by a seemingly easy query

Editorial Board Published April 19, 2025
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Expensive Readers: On March 16, I shared a letter from “Mother of Three,” who misplaced her daughter 5 years in the past and felt uncertain about the best way to reply when folks ask, “How many children do you have?”

Quite a few readers wrote in with considerate and empathetic options. I’d wish to share 4 with you immediately.

Expensive Eric: I misplaced my lovely, clever oldest son to alcoholism three years in the past.

If the state of affairs is informal, I reply that we raised three boys and now have 4 grandchildren, together with ladies, a brand new expertise for us! For a lot of conditions, that’s sufficient info.

When conversations go deeper, I calmly say that we misplaced a son to alcoholism, an vital proven fact that must be stated. It may be an ungainly second, however I say that we have now many blessings and luxuriate in life with all of our household and buddies.

– Mom of Three

Expensive Mom: I like that you just body your reply in a manner that feels most snug for you; that’s key. Additionally, by sharing extra info while you select to, you by no means know who you would possibly assist. Thanks for writing and I’m sorry for the lack of your son.

Expensive Eric: I perceive “Mother of Three.” I misplaced two grownup youngsters, my son Alan to ALS, and my youthful daughter, Leslie, to superior breast most cancers, 5 and three years in the past.

I, too, felt awkward when requested what number of youngsters I’ve. It’s simpler if I say one, however then I really feel I’m negating my youngsters who died. What I say now’s, “I have one surviving child, a daughter who lives in Seattle.” Generally I say extra, typically not.

– One other Mother of Three

Expensive Mother: I’m sorry for the lack of Alan and Leslie. What I see in your reply is an consciousness that typically we’re in a spot to share extra extensively and typically we’re not, and each are good. Thanks for sharing.

Expensive Eric: I, too, misplaced a baby 5 years in the past. He was 17 and suffered an unintentional overdose.

Early on as I handled related emotions, I made a decision I’d by no means deny my son’s existence in any state of affairs. So, when the inevitable questions provide you with new folks about what number of youngsters I’ve and what they’re doing with their lives, and many others., I say I’ve two youngsters and one in every of them has handed away. Then I comply with up with, “It’s OK, I love to talk about him!” And I do!

His loss is as a lot part of figuring out me as something you’ll be able to see on the floor. I hope this helps.

– One other Angel Mother

Expensive Angel Mother: What an attractive and sensible level – each a part of your son’s journey will at all times be part of your life. I’m glad that speaking about him brings you pleasure and I’m sorry for the loss you endured.

Expensive Eric: I’ve a buddy who misplaced her son to suicide, and in researching the best way to assist I got here throughout this concept: My buddy responds by saying, “I have a son who died two years ago and a daughter who is [daughter’s age] and lives in Boulder.” That manner folks can reply to the diploma they’re in a position.

People who find themselves not shut often ask in regards to the daughter and don’t reply in regards to the son, and people who are nearer, have an analogous expertise or really feel snug discussing it ask in regards to the son.

– Reader

Expensive Reader: That is one other swish manner of navigating this dialog with truthfulness and an consciousness that some totally different folks deliver in several feelings and experiences to a dialog.

Expensive Eric: I’d like to supply different options for “Sister in the Middle,” the lady whose sister has a verbally abusive, controlling son.

I’ve labored within the long-term care world for greater than 20 years, and if she fears that her sister is really being verbally abused, and she or he’s involved about her sister’s well-being, she will name Grownup Protecting Providers (APS) within the county the sister lives in. She will make an nameless name, sharing all of the considerations she has. Sounds to me like a particular concern for elder abuse and isolation.

Elder abuse has many varieties. Calling APS generally is a secure, efficient manner to make sure the sister’s security by people who find themselves in a position to be neutral and unbiased but additionally be there for this lady’s sister when she will’t.

It could seem like intrusive, and household/buddies are typically hesitant to name, however the different is having a beloved one proceed to stay in any sort of abusive relationship, even whether it is together with her baby.

– Involved Social Employee Who Cares

Expensive Social Employee: Thanks for this useful resource. If the sister is a senior, APS can present much-needed help.

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