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Robyn Brown didn’t know the entire reality when she married Kody.
We reported on Mykelti’s latest livestream by which she mentioned her prolonged household, together with each shut and strained relationships.
One of the vital complicated a part of the Sister Wives story has been Robyn becoming a member of the household.
In accordance with Mykelti, Kody wished everybody to placed on a pleasant and conflict-free facade for his new spouse. However that clearly couldn’t final without end.
In a grave tone, Robyn Brown talks along with her husband. (Picture Credit score: TLC)
Did Robyn Brown purchase right into a lie earlier than marrying Kody?
In accordance with Mykelti’s YouTube livestream, Robyn Brown took years earlier than turning into “closed off” round the remainder of the prolonged household.
Why? As a result of, when she married Kody in 2010, she noticed a “happy family” facade that hid their actual issues.
“Robin didn’t always used to be this shy,” Mykelti recalled. “Robyn’s ‘shyness’ that she’s been the last several years wasn’t always Robyn.”
Bear in mind, she would know — she lived with Robyn forward of the wedding.
“I think a lot of the shyness has been developed because she’s been hardened by opinions,” Mykelti mirrored. “And hardened by reality where like, her family that she thought she was marrying into isn’t what she thought it was.”
Apparently, Kody instructed his three wives on the time (all now his exes) and their many youngsters to hide the household’s numerous issues from his new bride-to-be.
“I think when she first joined the family, we were told to present this beautiful front,” Mykelti recalled. “Kind of like when we first started the show.”
In accordance with her, Kody instructed the household that “we needed to put our best foot forward, and we needed to not have fights and show the world the beautifulness that is polygamy.”
Mykelti continued: “It was the same thing when Robyn joined the family.”
She detailed: “We were told to show the beauty, show the privilege, show the awesomeness of our family so she would want to be part of it.”
Starting to tear up, Robyn Brown considers potential adjustments to her household. (Picture Credit score: TLC)
Ultimately, after all, Robyn Brown found that Kody was not dwelling a polygamist’s dream. There have been actual issues — these of any household, and (after all) these of any household that has a character like Kody’s within the combine.
“I do think Robyn was shocked at how bad Dad’s relationships were with all of the wives,” Mykelti admitted.
“When she joined, it took a while for the rose-colored glasses to come off,” she mirrored, “and everybody to show their true selves and real relationships.”
Mykelti famous: “A couple years in, that’s when she really started to notice there aren’t little problems. These are some big issues.”
She continued: “So, no, I don’t think she was aware about the issues, but I think she became aware of the issues.”
Sitting for a chat over YouTube, Mykelti Brown discusses her childhood and whereas one former sister spouse just isn’t just like the others. (Picture Credit score: YouTube)
To be clear, nevertheless, Mykelti isn’t claiming to be a part of a prepared conspiracy to entrap and beguile Robyn.
“None of us were trying to deceive her,” she emphasised.
Mykelti defined that, relatively, “we were trying to welcome her.”
She emphasised: “We were trying not to fight in front of her … we were trying to put our best foot forward, not deceive.”
There’s a positive line between the 2. Doing a little additional cleansing and tidying earlier than friends arrive isn’t deceitful. Stuffing rubbish below the visitor mattress would possibly make a nasty shock for a visiting pal, nevertheless.
Chatting with the confessional digicam, Robyn Brown explains polygamist protocols to ‘Sister Wives’ viewers. (Picture Credit score: TLC)
Her being so sad a lot of the time makes lots of sense
Maybe her Sobbin’ Robyn Brown nickname and the tears that prompted it are simpler to know once we see issues from her perspective.
To her, this “wonderful” man (it’s unclear why she believed this about Kody) invited her to affix his pleased polygamist household.
Over time, she realized that he had points with all three wives, that Meri had tensions with each of the opposite sister wives. And, famously, Kody doesn’t actually have a lot of a relationship with most of his grownup youngsters lately.
In fact, Robyn looks like she’s in too deep to go away, and in too deep emotionally to need to go away.
Even when Kody allegedly tricked her into this marriage, she appears to love the wool over her eyes.
