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Miss Manners: I don’t know what the waiter noticed, however I used to be embarrassed

Editorial Board Published November 19, 2024
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DEAR MISS MANNERS: I used to be in a restaurant and the waiter, unasked, introduced additional napkins.

I turned very self-conscious, pondering I should be making a large number. I checked my mirror and, so far as I might inform, every thing was effective, however I nonetheless felt embarrassed.

Typically I do want additional napkins, however I favor to ask for them myself. However, I recognize when a waiter refills my water with out ready to be requested, so I wouldn’t wish to discourage their being alert and useful.

What’s your take?

GENTLE READER: That you simply embarrass a lot too simply.

DEAR MISS MANNERS: I’m internet hosting Thanksgiving dinner this yr for about 25 folks. Most are touring in from out of city.

I’ve expressed that folks don’t have to convey something, and I imply it.

I’ve gotten unfavourable reactions from individuals who say I’m not being useful. Is a part of being a very good host offering concepts for what everybody can convey? There are solely so many issues you’ll be able to convey to Thanksgiving dinner you can additionally convey on a aircraft (i.e., perhaps a field of goodies).

GENTLE READER: To Miss Manners’ puzzlement, there are particular so-called etiquette guidelines which have been so totally pounded into everybody that even the otherwise-rude will obey them.

You understand the baffling “rule” that forbids anybody, even visitors, from utilizing visitor towels — objects that appear to have achieved a bizarre fetish standing. One other rule-that-isn’t is that when invited to dinner, visitors should convey a part of the meal.

To be clear, it is a cheap observe for communal meals which have been recognized as such upfront. And Thanksgiving typically is one.

However the potluck method is now relentlessly utilized to all meals, whatever the explicitly acknowledged needs of the host. Friends would relatively make nuisances of themselves than present up, as it’s described, “empty-handed.”

Sure, it’s admirable to share the work. However the conventional method of doing so is to take turns entertaining.

Miss Manners is conscious that many individuals favor the pay-as-you-go technique. Some hosts do, too, to the purpose of assigning catering to visitors who haven’t volunteered. And a few visitors take into account it an alternative choice to reciprocating.

However there must be an opt-out clause for the numerous who, such as you, have advised Miss Manners that they struggle in useless to discourage it. They plan meals and are not looking for additions. Or they don’t need folks taking up their kitchens. And perhaps they want to be invited out with out having to convey a sloshing pot with them.

As variations of “Oh, thank you, don’t bother” are dismissed, you’ll have to be sterner. Maybe, “I’m making a full meal, so I won’t be able to serve anything else. If there is extra food, I’m going to ask people to take it to a shelter so it doesn’t go to waste.”

DEAR MISS MANNERS: A “friend” who gossips is aware of my husband and I are having difficulties, and yesterday she requested me if he’s “chasing after other women.”

What ought to I’ve mentioned?

GENTLE READER: The response Miss Manners suggests is, “Not that I know of. But if he is chasing after you, do you want me to tell him to stop?”

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