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Theresa Nist would really like your consideration.
Or, to be extra correct and particular, Theresa Nist would really like the eye of her ex-husband.
For these unaware, Gerry Turned has written a memoir titled “Golden Years: What I’ve Discovered from Love, Loss, and Actuality TV.
In a earlier interview with Us Weekly, the unique Golden Bachelor — who proposed to Nist on his season’s finale, then married her months in a while air after which introduced their divorce in April 2024 — mentioned his ex-wife “should be worried” in regards to the contents of this guide.
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What a bizarre and impolite factor to say, huh?
“I am normally such a calm person. And all I want is peace and joy and good things in my life,” Theresa mentioned on the newest version of the Pricey Shandy podcast.
“I have been so upset. I have been extremely upset. Anytime I talk about anything that I read that he said about any interaction we had, I just go, ‘That’s not how it was.’”
Resembling?
In response to Theresa, there was “distance” between her and Turner that started on her in a single day date.
It wasn’t till the pair have been within the fantasy suite — when she started speaking about her job — that she felt the dynamic “modified fully.
Is she implying right here that Turner was of their relationship for his or her cash?
“He started proclaiming his love for me. [He said], ‘I love you. I love you. I love you. And I’m going to ask you to marry me and whether or not you say yes, that’s up to you.’ I was shocked,” Theresa recalled, noting that she thought Gerry had a stronger reference to runner-up Leslie Fhima.
Gerry Turner and Theresa Nist didn’t make it as a pair. (ABC)
Elsewhere, Nist mentioned Turner had fairly a mood.
For instance, she tried to fall asleep one night time as early as her husband, just for Turner to reportedly lose it on her.
“I was up for like an hour and I was just about to go to sleep and all of a sudden he comes storming out of the bedroom calling me a liar,” Theresa mentioned on air, claiming that Gerry mentioned the feedback in “such a bad temper.”
In his guide, Turner mentioned he felt “trapped” the night time earlier than the pair’s marriage ceremony.
“I have to say that I always said I like to live my life without regrets, but boy I made some mistakes here. I regret getting married so quickly. That shouldn’t have happened,” Theresa did confess on the podcast, emphasizing that Turner ought to have known as off the ceremony if he was actually pondering it was a foul thought.
Theresa Nist got here out on prime of The Golden Bachelor. (ABC)
Additionally in his memoir, Turner alleged that his now-ex was hesitant to signal a prenuptial settlement.
Nevertheless, Nist now tells a unique story about being confused by which paperwork to return to him.
“Gerry wanted the prenup and I told him, ‘No, I would never in a million years take your money.’ So he dropped it,” Theresa defined.
Turner, although, modified his thoughts and finally requested Theresa to signal the prenup. Seems like a number of miscommunication right here.
Gerry Turner and Theresa Nist announce their divorce on Good Morning America. (Picture Credit score: ABC)
It additionally sounds as if the previous spouses didn’t have the most effective intercourse life, to place it bluntly.
When visiting Theresa at her dwelling in New Jersey at one level, Gerry alleged that she “rebuffed” his makes an attempt at bodily intimacy and that she made him sleep on the couch.
Theresa, for her half?
“I haven’t slept with anyone in nine years,” she now says.
“I didn’t sleep the entire night and I’m not a great sleeper. The next morning it came up, ‘How did you sleep?’ I said, ‘I didn’t sleep at all.’ We slept together the first night. He said, ‘Oh, I can sleep on the couch if you want me to.’ He offered to sleep on the couch. I did not ask him to sleep on the couch,” Theresa claimed.
Gerry Turner and Theresa Nist are now not married. (ABC)
A few yr in the past, Turner was recognized with most cancers.
Nist mentioned she completely would have caught by Gerry’s facet all through this battle, and that the prognosis had nothing to do with their divorce.
Quick ahead these many months and Nist hasn’t given up on love.
“I really do want to get married. I do want love in my life. That’s what I wanted. That was the whole point of this,” she mentioned on the podcast.